I am so tired of hearing ladies say things like
-All men are the same
-All men cheat
-All that men want is sex... Blah blah blah
While I will not dispute any of these facts, I just want to drop a note for the ladies.
I respect women. Yes I do, but I feel a lot of these things are overrated.
An average girl today believes a lot of things about men in general and while a whole lot of those things are true, a lot are also not very true in themselves.
I'm not on this note to burst myths but to shed lights.
They say that all men will cheat.
Well, I believe you. You know why I believe you? That's because if women will do their job of keeping themselves well, no man will cheat. At least a guy will not sleep with a mosquito.
Ehen! I hear a lot of you ranting already.
Well, I have said that one so let's move on to the next thing.
Oh! you ladies don't want us to move yeah? OK let's go further into it.
Ladies, when was the last time a man approached you and you took out time to ask him questions just as he did ask you?
Most of you rush off into looking at his lovely suit, shoe and nice accent.
Now I know that there is also another believe that men are the logical ones and women are emotional.
That is a big story!!! As in STORY of LIFE!
A guy sits back for hours thinking of the pick up line to use on a girl, while a girl sit to think of what??? But yes, you find the pick up line very attractive that you fall for it. Ok, then what?
Those short moments he stands or sits talking to you are meant for a-two-way conversation but you will be amazed that most times that it is the guy doing all the talking while the girl is playing cool and answering as much as she wants to but never asking him any question at all.
Then she comes off amazed that he is either married or in a relationship after later.
Also, I strongly believe that all of these ladies that say these things are the ones causing a lot of the reasons men cheat.
I have seen ladies who are in a relationship and or aware that a guy is too yet go visit the guy in his house or agree to go out on a date with him. So ladies please stop accusing all of us men when your selfish interests does not gell well for you. Biko.
And seriously, the fact that you had a misfortune with one guy or set of guys does not mean that all guys are the same. It could also mean that you just have a bad taste in guys period.
Another stuff you girls say is that all that men want is sex.
YES we want sex,
We want sex so much that we don't mind spending a fortune to get it.
We want sex so much that lots of men have died for it.
But is that exactly supposed to be a problem?
I don't think so.
We are just wired that way and no matter how much we try, there is nothing we can do about it.
In fact, you should run for your life if any man deny having sexual desires. Such a man is evil. Lol.
I think with these knowledge, you ladies will leave us alone and stay all by yourself.
You accuse us of wanting sex, yet you show us all your boobs.
Before now, it was just cleavages but now its the whole breast, all in the name of fashion.
You walk in the street, mall and other public places these days and you see girls in bum shorts and wicked mini's all over the place. Haaa. Have malls become your living room?. Kai.
I was almost slapped by a man just because I complemented his daughter's boobs in a shopping mall. I just said nice boobs and the man fled up in anger. That's after the daughter said 'Thanks' before realizing that it was actually her boobs I complemented and not something else. Why should you say a thing like that? What are you foolish guys looking at? Can't you just walk straight? And my only reply was 'seriously?' after a minute of perplexed silence. I saw the boobs all over the place and I just had to sincerely complement it.
Now my question is, is there anything wrong in complementing something that caught your attention? I'm I exactly meant to be walking with my eyes looking up?
If it were to be your shoes that got the complement will you rage? Why not?
You put your boobs on public display so please get used to it. If it looks nice and catches my attention then trust that I'll say it but if it doesn't look so nice, I'll say otherwise too. The bottom line is that i saw it.
You girls should not put all the sensitive parts of your body on display and not expect some sincere men like us to notice. And Yes I'm still born again but I don't leave my eyes in the house before stepping out.
Back in the days, even sex workers who wore those kind of dresses to market their product will hide in corners in their marketplace and in odd hours of the dark night because they don't want to be seen by all.
It wasn't enough that your daughter wore a bum short to the mall, she opened her breast for me and every other person to see.
Don't reveal all the sensitive part of your body and expect us not to see them.
We have eyes.
You say its fashion, but our minds don't understand the language of fashion. All we think about when we see those hot laps and boobs is sex. So please don't blame us for asking for too much sex, its just who we are. Just help us as much as you can by not revealing the sensitive parts of your body.
One last thing please before I run away...
Don't expect a guy to take you shopping, buy expensive phones and gadgets and then not expect him to want sex. Kai, thats evil on the part of the girls.
Even if sex doesn't justify the things he buys for you, if you want and accept those things without asking questions and clearing grounds, then don't shout when he comes for sex cause it will be very bad if you don't give him. And don't come and say he rapped you, and that's even if he physically forced you to it.
In fact you should not have let him force you, you should just give in before it becomes force because you have given in since you started collecting his money and gifts.
But seriously guys, that's not a license to sexually harass women too. Its bad and evil. You will do your jail term alone. Our generation needs responsible men. You guys too, must you buy??? Haba.
Go and marry if you need somebody to lavish money and gift items on and let all these small girls stay in school and focus on their studies.
Ladies keep yourself and body intact and well covered up. We appreciate beauty and we know when a lady is attractive. Showing us your boobs will just make us see you as available for sex. If you attract a man with your boobs, he will do all he can to see every other part of your body.
Like my friend IBK-Spaceshipboi said in a song 'sticks and stones may break my bones, what might be in vogue will make you loose your mind. Baby keeping your body well na so'
Gaise, calls this one - Sex Talk - http://bit.ly/x44GQ2
And also, ladies should please help us men to stay faithful. All men will stay faithful if all ladies were faithful.
I believe that with these few points of mine, i've been able to convince you that all men are not necessarily the same.
Thanks for reading. Bye.
Dan Okezue
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